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WEDDING

A Wedding Planning Guide

Bee Create April 2, 2018

We got engaged almost 2 years ago, and we moved to London halfway between then and now, so we haven’t even had a chance to think about wedding plans, although we have a date….and it’s another 2 years away, but how nicely does 2020 roll off the tongue 😉 We have decided that we want to have our wedding in Cape Town, and when we visit this year June we are off to see a handful of our favourite summer venues!

I must admit, I have had a wedding Pinterest board for a very long time, and it is HUGE, filled with a few different styles over the years, and no doubt will change before the actual day.

Growing up in Cape Town and spending our days in the garden, and under the warm evening stars chatting with friends and family over a fire, the intimacy and warmth of a backyard wedding has become my dream and at the same time, requires the most planning

I will definitely be sharing little bits as we plan, without ruining the surprise of the big day. Here are some inspiration images of the style I’m going for at the moment, although the final venue will determine how the style materialises, but ultimately I want it to be intimate, romantic and all about our closest friends and family!

The key to planning our wedding is being organised, especially seeing as we are planning the whole wedding ourselves, based in a different country!

So I have set a guide for the next 2 years (with the help from Vogue) and I thought it would be great to share with anyone who is in the same boat, as before I started this list I was so super stressed out about how I’m ever going to plan and stay organised, and now I am positively excited!

12 TO 24 MONTHS OUT

—Pin anything and everything and figure out a style you love
—Research all the venues you could dream of and start to narrow them down
—Visit the top 5 venues and choose which you have your eye set on, they book up fast!

9 TO 12 MONTHS OUT

—Start refining your Pinterest board to a style you love
—Determine the budget
—Book a planner
—Draft a guest list
—Choose the wedding party
—Secure the venues for the ceremony and reception (plus the rehearsal dinner and after-party)
—Book an officiant
—Choose the stationary
—Send out save-the-date cards (roughly one year ahead, especially for out of town guests)

6 TO 8 MONTHS OUT

—Find and order the dress
—Register for gifts
—Create a wedding website
—Hire a caterer and arrange a tasting
—Find a baker and order the wedding cake
—Hire a florist and begin planning the decor
—Meet with the DJ or band and discuss the wedding playlist
—Arrange for hotel blocks and necessary transportation for guests

3 TO 6 MONTHS OUT

—Book hair and makeup for both bride and bridal party and do a trial
—Order the wedding rings
—Finalize the menu
—Finalize the flowers and decor
—Finalize the playlist
—Begin wedding dress fittings (most brides have three) and purchase your underpinnings
—Order any additional paper goods: menus, programs, et cetera
—Get a marriage license
—Send out the invitations

2 MONTHS OUT

—Create a ceremony and reception timeline
—Choose the readings and decide on how to present the vows
—Order favors and any wedding party gifts

1 MONTH OUT

—Send out the rehearsal dinner invitations
—Schedule a final dress fitting
—Assign seating
—Reconfirm all vendors
—Begin thinking about your vows

THE WEEK OF

—Reconfirm the small details and special requests with all of the vendors
—Give the final headcount of all guests, including the vendors, to the reception site head and caterer
—Pack for the honeymoon
—Arrange for a relaxing spa day

Print out this list and check off as you go along, and make sure to keep following back for our wedding planning updates as we head to our big day in 2020! If there are any tips and tricks for planning a wedding from abroad please let me know…

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